The Social Hierarchy of Teenage Girls

WARNING : DEEP POST

Before I start, I just want to say that by no means am I trying to offend anyone in the post. I'm simply showing you how I see things at my school and other local schools.

In every school there is a social hierarchy of teenage girls. Fact. They seem to be different wherever you go but this is how i see my school.

Right at the top you have what i call "the mean populars" . These people are generally popular amongst themselves and think everyone loves them but in actual fact people think they are bitches etc. They are the type of people that'll throw a party on a whim and get pissed all the time because they think it's cool. They likely wear skirts that bareley cover their arse and an inch of make-up. They look down at people any lower down the hierachy and think they are more superior and therfore do what they want. Bullies tend to come under this catergory too.  No one knows what makes these people "popular" because to be honest they are not popular because most of the people lower down don't like them at all.

Next you have "the nice populars" . These girls are popular because people like them. They are slightly lower down the ladder than the mean populars but they have the advantage of people actually liking them. Granted, these girls do tend to still have drama , parties and ridiculosly short skirts but i mean nobodies perfect. They are nice to those lower down the ladder than them when they come across them. But they won't go out of their way to talk to you. Only if you are the only one to talk to. If you pass them in the corridors they probably won't say anything to you. These girls are likely to be prom queen etc.

Here we have the "wannabe populars" . These girls may or may not have been popular in the past but now fall into this category. They tend to be the drug addicts and generally annoying people. The ones that have been popoular before have normally had an argument with the rest of the populars which has left them clinging onto the popular life that used to be instead of just accepting it and moving on, often leading them to drugs but not always. The one who haven't been popular before just want to be and so dress, act etc. just like the populars in hope of sneaking in. These girls tend to be horrible to you.

This is where i think i fit into this. "lower groups" . These are the people who don't aspire to be popular or anything but simply are content with the group of friends they have at that present moment. They just have a laugh and don't care about what people think. I think this is the best group to be in because why would you spend your life trying to be popular or maintain your popular status.  Granted, the girls in this group can be bitchy when they want to be. I'm not saying that the girls in this group are perfect but i just think it's better.

Right of the bottom we have "the misfits". There are hardly any of these at my school but from what i have heard from other schools this is a catergory. So, for your benefit, i will include it. These are the girls who don't really seem to fit in anywhere. I feel sorry for these girls and encourage anyone who feels they are in this group to pluck up the courage to go and make friends some people. I promise you that if you just be yourself people will accept you for who you are.

Please Do Not be offended by this post. I'm by no means saying that this is what every school is like this or that you have to be in one of these groups because you don't. :)